Wednesday, May 14, 2014

The Lady ...

 
Many years have been spent online by most of us.  We open up and share just what we choose for others to know about ourselves and a part of our private lives.  We have been known to share not only the 'highs' but the lows as well.   All knowing that none of us can make a difference in another's circumstances, but if nothing more than a sense of 'release' ...we post .

I have shared about my family, to some more than others.  From my parents, to my online experience,
my daughter conceived after an online relationship brought in to my everyday, the passing of my brother and just of the upmost importance ... the unconditional love and respect for my Mother.
 (aka The Lady)

Usually, the focus for our family on Mother's Day is celebrating the matriarch of our family.  Our Queen Bee.  This year was quiet different for us.  The Lady's health has been up and down for sometime.  Seemed she always mustered enough strength to come back swinging.  Reminding her children and grandchildren why my father tagged her years ago ... "The Lady".

A few days prior to Mother's Day her health began to falter.  We spent Mother's Day with her hospitalized and waiting for signs of her recovering and continuing to fill her many roles for our family.  Mother, friend, counselor, grandmother, neighbor, volunteer and above all ...the enforcer of the step in our walk that she and our father put in us.

Sunday I told the Lady she would have to hold me to her Mother's Day dinner after she felt better.
She explained to me in a few words ... all she wanted fir Mother's Day was for me to get her home so she could wait there to catch up with her husband. 

I dealt with my sisters resistance for awhile and then together, we made our Mother's request happen.

Make every day count ...

2 comments:

  1. My dearest Scott Lee,

    It is with very heavy heart I read this. Over the last few years, "The lady" stories have filled many of our conversations and I can only imagine her impact on everyone she's touched. I have been blessed by her prayer circle and no doubt benefited from those.

    I have no idea what you and your family are feeling right now but please know that I hold you all very close to my heart and send peace, strength and sympathy to Texas.

    Please try and remember to take care of you too and trust that if you need me, I am here. Always will be.

    Deepest regards and love.

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  2. Scott,

    I am so sorry to hear about your Mother's health. I honestly don't know what I would do without my Mom. I will be praying for her and you and your family. You know where I am if you need a shoulder.

    Love ya!

    Sue

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